Consistency: The Foundation For Trust

The ability to be consistent is a sign that one is on the path to emotional mastery. Those who are immature tend to have inconsistent habits and responds. Predicting their behavior is almost impossible. While this is an endearing quality while one is young, it becomes a liability as we age. [...]

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Emotional Mastery

Emotional mastery is one of the vital components that every good Master has. It is impossible to control another if one cannot control oneself. Most of the world’s philosophies have taught this concept for centuries. A slave needs the guidance of a Master yet this is hindered if that person is unstable.

A [...]

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Fear Is A Poor Way To Control

I see so many trying to control their slaves through the use of fear. To me, this is one of the most ineffective ways to handle a M/s relationship. Fear and intimidation work well in the short-term. However, if one seeks a long-term Master/slave relationship then it is necessary to find another [...]

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Common Failure of M/s Relationships

People look at the M/s relationship as something entirely different than it is.  The key word in this arrangement is relationship.  Somehow individuals approach this way of life completely different than they do all other aspects.  It seems that since we are indulging in an exchange of power, that the basic skills acquired in approaching [...]

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The Yin and Yang of the M/s relationship

Nature is one of balance.  Everything has its counterpart which allows for the natural flow of things.  For every yin, there is a yang.
The M/s relationship falls into this category.  We often refer to the power exchange as the basis of these relationships.  But, we also notice that each person compliments the other.  Individuals in [...]

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