Unrealistic Expectations

Of late we have referred to some of the expectations that people have when entering a M/s relationship. It seems that many believe this type of relationship is the solution to all their problems. It is common to find a new person who is truly submissive (or dominant) take to this lifestyle immediately. [...]

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Living In The Reality Of M/s

Many think that the M/s relationship is the cure-all for whatever ails them. This really seems to be prevalent among those who’s experience is limited to online interaction. It is vitally important to remember that the M/s relationship is just another of the many relationships which people experience in life. It is [...]

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Meeting Safely

Taking one’s online relationship to the real world can be an exciting step. It is why most entered into the relationship to begin with. However, it is crucial that one take a safe approach to meeting her new Master. The precautions should be the same regardless of how long the interaction has [...]

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Having Fun

We often talk about how many of us take this lifestyle seriously; which we do. The tendency is to look down upon those who enter it as a role playing or fantasy fulfillment game. The majority of people who truly live this are as serious about their choice as married people are about [...]

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Giving Sexually

For many, the M/s lifestyle is one of fantasy. It is true that many of your fantasies can come true. It seems that people who are drawn to this lifestyle are sexually charged people. Also, most tend to have a vivid imagination. This bodes well for those who are seeking their [...]

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What Is The Long Term Goal?

“I want to find a Master to submit to”. “I am looking for a slave to train and use”. These are the utterances of those seeking to find someone to be with. However, how many really take the time to decide what they want long-term? Judging by the approach that I [...]

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Submission

This is an act that is held in negative view by most of society. It certainly is not th equality that most cultures promote as being something one wants to strive for. Those who are submissive are looked upon as weak. Power and control are qualities which are held as valuable. [...]

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Warning Signs Of A Fake-Degradation

There is a major difference between playing during a scene and true degradation. Many enjoy the process of being put down, especially during sexual activities. This is fairly common among male subs. However, this is something that is more play than a realistic view of that person. A true Master will [...]

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Warning Signs Of A Fake-Quick To Punish

Punishments are a part of the Master/slave relationship. One of the important qualities that a Master seeks to instill in His slave is discipline. Part of this is punishment. However, punishments are consequences for actions taken (or not taken). They are administered in a judicious manner. Anyone who quickly goes [...]

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Warning Signs Of A Fake-Fear

This is a big indicator that the person one is dealing with has no idea what he is doing. Most pretenders, fakes, and trollers believe that the M/s relationship is based upon fear. That is the method that is most effective for control. This is a true sign that amateur hour is [...]

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