Frustration
Frustration is a part of everyone’s life at different times. The Master/slave relationship is not exempt from the trials and tribulations of life itself. People can become very frustrated at times and that can come out when dealing with another in this type of situation.
Emotional mastery is a key component to overcoming some of these challenges. We are better able to deal with others when we are able to control or change our emotional states. However, this will not alleviate all the problems that one encounters.
As with anything, communication seems to be the key. There is no way to replace the open dialog for ensuring the success of a relationship. Even in one where this is a total power exchange, expressing one’s dissatisfactions is important. Many times, the other party is completely unaware of what is lacking. It is easy for life circumstances to garner one’s attention; adversely affecting the other person.
This often occurs when slave’s get frustrated over the training one receives. I was guilty over the years of not providing the proper attention to a particular slave while focusing on other events in my life. There are times when life circumstances get difficult and require attention. It is important to communicate what is going on with the other person. Frustration can mount over the feeling of being overlooked.
Try to keep in mind that frustration is a part of the human experience which must be dealt with. The desire to run can be great at these times. Resist this temptation while focusing on what needs to be done.
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