Decisiveness is a quality of all great leaders. People follow those with whom they feel confident with. Leaders are continually confronted with decisions which affect others. A quick way to kill morale is for a leader to be uncertain in his or her decision making ability. People lose confidence in a person like that.
In the Master/slave relationship, the Master is the leader. It is He who is responsible for all decisions. Slaves tend to lose faith in their Master when He is uncertain of the choices made. Decisiveness is a way for a Master to increase the confidence His slave has. The presumption is One who can make decisions quickly is strong. Of course, the reverse is a presumed sign of weakness.
So how can One develop this habit? Decisiveness is a quality that can be acquired. It is no something that people are born with. It is a mixture of self confidence with practice. Like any other muscle, the decision making muscle gets stronger the more it is used. Start today making all decisions quickly. Start with the less important decisions before moving to bigger choices. For example, select what to eat for lunch or dinner in less than a minute. Make it quickly and move on. This will set One on the path to a healthy habit.
A Master needs to develop the traits of the world’s great leaders. Although not necessarily running a country or a Fortune 500 company, a Master has the life of his slave(s) in His hands. Because of the total power exchange, He is the One that needs to instill the internal self confidence. Decisiveness is at the core of all great leaders. Implement this into your relationship and witness how much more confidence your slave will have in you.
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