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Archive for May 26th, 2008

There is a major difference between playing during a scene and true degradation. Many enjoy the process of being put down, especially during sexual activities. This is fairly common among male subs. However, this is something that is more play than a realistic view of that person. A true Master will [...]

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Punishments are a part of the Master/slave relationship. One of the important qualities that a Master seeks to instill in His slave is discipline. Part of this is punishment. However, punishments are consequences for actions taken (or not taken). They are administered in a judicious manner. Anyone who quickly goes [...]

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This is a big indicator that the person one is dealing with has no idea what he is doing. Most pretenders, fakes, and trollers believe that the M/s relationship is based upon fear. That is the method that is most effective for control. This is a true sign that amateur hour is [...]

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In our never ending quest to stamp out the fakes, we move on to another warning sign which might alert one she is dealing with a pretender. All healthy relationships are built around trust. Without the trust of both parties for the other, there will be issues with their interaction. Of course, [...]

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Many ask how can one tell if the person she is dealing with is a real Master or a pretender. While admitting there is no sure-fire way to do this, there are some signs that one can look for which might help. We will deal with the first one here.
A fake always has [...]

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The popular answer would be sex, sex, and more sex. This would be offered by some of those pretenders who seem to stroll into our gathering places looking for a quickie hookup. Obviously, there is a lot more to this lifestyle than that. Anyone who seeks to be an effective Master will [...]

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