Mistakes

It seems many have a misplaced idea about mistakes.  Again this seems to be something where common sense leaves the reservation when dealing with the M/s world.
In any activity, mistakes are the best learning tool.  Often, the best way to become adept at something is to try it and fail.  It is through the failing [...]

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Power Exchange

Absolute, or Total, Power Exchange is  a fundamental premise in the M/s relationship.  It is the one factor which separates it from other relationships.  We have discussed this a bit in the past.  However, I see many who are still somewhat confused by this concept.
Every relationship has a distribution of power.  It might be based [...]

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Limits

I recently read something on line which peaked my interest.  This particular individual believed that a slave had no limites; not if she was a true slave.  This statement made me stand back and think.  I was perplexed how someone could come to that conclusion.  It made me re-evaluate what I believed on this matter.
Does [...]

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Mutual Satisfaction

It seems that the M/s relationsip is one where the Master is the sole recipient of all the pleasure.  Outsiders are led to believe that slaves are the ones who continually give while receiving nothing in return.  While this is how it appears, it is not the case.  In fact, the M/s relationship is one [...]

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Online Trust

The Internet has allowed many to be exposed to the M/s lifestyle.  Years ago, those of us involved found it almost by mistake.  Personally, I first encountered this way of life by dating someone who had been a slave in the past.  She was the one who initially trained me as to how this way [...]

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Do You Senselessly Trust?

The approach to the M/s world seems to make people do things which they normally would not.  It seems what is commonsense goes out the window when one is seeking to get with a Master.  In the last post, we mentioned how trust is the foundation for all successful M/s relationships.  In fact, it is [...]

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The Foundation Of A M/s Relationship

I recently got an email from a woman who is a sub.  She is new to the life and is exploring exactly where she fits in.  She mentioned to me that she was always looking to please her partners in all her past relationships (which were traditional).  However, they always felt smothered by her needing [...]

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Treating Slaves As Individuals

I recently was reading some posting on a particular website which discussed how different slaves are treated.  There were some who believed that all slaves are to be treated the same; others who felt that they need to be treated as individuals.  It was a lively discussion which went back and forth.  It is interesting [...]

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M/s Only Magnifies Things

A M/s relationship can be a wonderful way of life for many. However, it is not something that will solve all of O/one’s problem. In fact, the M/s relationship will only magnify other issues which are present in a relationship. People who enter this way of life seeking to solve their problems [...]

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Attention To Life

Many get in this lifestyle thinking this is the answer to all of life’s problems. Unfortunately, it is not. Life still happens. Masters need to be especially attentive to life. We simply cannot overlook our obligations because one submits to us. There needs to be the proper balance in our [...]

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