I recently came across a thread on this forum that talked about captivity as a fantasy. It was incredible the number of women there who found this to be appealing. Therefore, for the benefit of all the readers here I will outline it. Perhaps this is something to bring up with your partner to see her interest. Keep in mind it is best if she is submissive (or he if applicable).
This fantasy is derived from the old kidnapping scenes in old movies. The basic idea is that one is held against her will in a “basement” type (or dungeon) environment. She is completely at the mercy of her captive. They use her in every way while giving her only the basic necessities of life. She has a toilet, something to sleep on, and is given basic food. The concept is that the conditions are far from regal.
This fantasy strikes at a submissives essense. There is complete powerness is a situation such as this. Obviously, for this to occur in reality is a traumatic experience. Yet as a fantasy and scene it can be wonderul. Come up with ways to recreate this in your relationship. Could you take her captive for a weekend? Perhaps set up a room with everything out of it. Make her sleep on the floor will you occassionally use her. Make it as realistic as possible.
As always, discuss the parameters going in. What are the bounds of activity which cannot be crossed? Will others be involved? What is the safe word to call the entire thing off? What steps can she take in case of an emergency? We always promote safety first here. However, after that, enjoy yourself.
There have been sex games involving voluntary captivity as a fantasy for sexual exploitation. Sometimes these are called rape games, other times it is just fetish games.
Yes, it is incredible about the number of women who find this kind of sexual recreation to be appealing. I was introduced to it by a girlfriend who had to coax me, as her guy friend, to tie her to the bed and have sex with her all day under the stipulation that I could never ask if she wanted to, I was just to do whatever I wanted. This was a very difficult thing for me to agree to, because it scared me at first.
So it was my female lover who brought me into this. Yes, there is a fantasy that is the propelling factor in this. It is derived from the old kidnapping fantasy, and from scenes in such movies as The Hand Of A Stranger, which was highly erotic to both of us.
The basic idea is that this is a game, a sex game, in which one of us, it doesn’t matter if the male or the female is the master, is held against his or her will. For us, it was in a bedroom or in some trees in a wilderness area. The captive is completely at the mercy of his or her captor, but we had pre-agreed written rules on sexual conduct that we agreed to abide by.
The captive is used sexually in every way of his or her biological features. The concept is that the conditions are sparton and as a sexual penalty. The captive is kept seduced, stimulated, and has to accept sexual intercourse or masturbation as a repetitive penalty.
Yes, this fantasy involves a submissives primal vulnerability, which is the essence of the erotic excitement for both captive and captor alike. We traded turns, once every two or three weeks was the male’s turn to be victim, and the next two or three weeks she was the victim. There is complete powerlessness is a situation such as this, and we often used bondage to restrain the victim and to put sexual stimulation to the victim’s genitals for continuous foreplay.
In a real situation, this would occur as a genuine rape as a traumatic experience, depending on the experience of and treatment to the victim. Yet as a fantasy it is highly erotic and can be wonderul. We always had the rule that the victim could never be asked to play in our sex games, only a volunteer could ask to play as the victim.
The original submitter of this had no idea that people all around the world use sex slavery and rape as a marital form of sexual recreation between husbands and wives, and sometimes between neighbors and friends. But it is rare that such forms of sexual recreation are ever disclosed to friends, neighbors and family members, for fear of extreme social retribution in spite of its highly erotic rewards to the participants.