One part of BDSM is femdom, it is the M/s or D/s relationship where the dominant person is female, and the sub or slave can be either male or female, that is basically the only difference.
The use of strap- ons in a M/s femdom relationship is common place and is something that add to a scene or play time regardless if the sub/slave is male or female.
There are many ways to live in a BDSM or M/s D/s relationship and femdom is one of the growing sides of this lifestyle, it does not make a person weak to submit to a woman, and it does not make them effeminant, it makes them stronger as they are following their desires and needs.
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to say that it does not make a person this or that because the person is simply expressing desirwes is a round about way of saying that in fact that person is passive or dominant, or submissive etc…following one’s needs is then an expression of those needs. Ibn sum: you are justify or rationalizing to “give p[ermission’ for one to be this or that.