Archive for June 7th, 2008

We have mentioned safety on here a number of times. In my opinion, this is one of the most important aspects of the lifestyle. There are arenas which we enter into that can be extremely dangerous if O/one is not careful. Safety is a concern that should always be on people’s mind.

Obviously when dealing with the Internet, safety is something which is well advertised. To be blunt: there are a lot of sick people out there. They engage in a forum that allows them to remain anonymous. A person can be whatever He or She decides without exception. Often, the truth is uncovered only after it is too late.

Another area where safety is a major concern when engaging in bondage. There are stories galore which spell out relate the horrific consequences of scenes gone bad. People not paying attention to detail caused someone to get seriously injured (or die). Take the necessary preventive measures to ensure that the one that You are playing with is safe.

Some of the steps that are taken for a safe time:

-the use of safe words

-using rope that is thick enough to avoid cutting into the person

-Striking only on the ass or upper back (avoid the spinal area at all times)

-avoiding mummification and suffocation techniques

-pre-planned rest periods

-leaving restraints loose enough to allow for circulation (if it is cut off, do so only for a short period of time)

-keep all sharp objects such as knives and blades away from all arteries.

These are just a few of the things You can do to ensure that both you and your partner enjoy the time spent together.

social bookmarking links:

add to del.icio.us :: Add to Blinkslist :: add to furl :: Digg it :: add to ma.gnolia :: Stumble It! :: add to simpy :: seed the vine :: :: :: TailRank

Read Full Post »