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We live in the Internet age. This device has become a terrific tool for meeting people from all over this world. It really is something which made it easy for like-minded people to get together. For this reason, we have seen the information about available lifestyles explode. What use to be a topic that only a few knew about is not something that can be located with any Google search. The “underground” moved into the mainstream online.

Part of this movement is the development of online dating sites. These sites, specifically the ones catering to adults, made is much easier to develop relationships with those same like-minded people. New online relationships are forged almost daily. On this site, I have written numerous times on the advantages to this type of relationship. However, at some point, a real M/s relationship needs to move into the real world. Relationships that never make this transition remain a fantasy. This begins to classify it as nothing more than role playing in most instances. Of course, there are situations where this does not take this form, especially when a Master is still conducting training from afar.

The question then becomes “how willing are you to move the relationship to the real world”. It is surprising how many are unwilling to take this step. This is a major red flag to where the ultimate outcome of the relationship might end up. A lack of willingness to make the relationship real indicates that the other person is perhaps playing games. This is something which needs to be fully examined.

Personally, I have met a number of slaves online. As mentioned, it is a great way to meet people with the same mindset. Whenever I am with someone new, one of the first things I find out is how willing is she to relocate to Florida. I set the stage upfront that this will ultimately be the expectation. Without an affirmative answer, I will delve deeper into what is going to transpire. Some take exception to me being so upfront. Well, the bottom line is that I am serious about this way of life. There are lots of slaves out there looking for owners (we discussed the percentages in a previous post also). Time becomes an issue. Simply, I am not willing to invest the time in someone who is not for real. This method seems to get it all out on the table.

So, ask yourself, how willing are you to be with your Master. Are you willing to move across country, or even to another country, to be with Him? Of course, I will caution you to use the proper diligence and spend the necessary time getting to know Him. However, if the time comes to move the relationship offline, are you willing to do that? If not, what are you seeking? Many take the M/s relationship seriously and failure to do so on your part will truly harm another. So, again, is this something that is real to you or not?

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This is a quality which is overlooked in our society today. However, throughout the centuries, there were many cultures that promoted service as one of it’s highest traits. An individual who acted in this capacity was worthy of great esteem and regard. This is the feeling that needs to be recaptured especially with slaves.

A slave is someone who selflessly serves her Master in all capacities which she is capable. She does not do it for recognition, prestige, or other benefits. A true slave’s payoff for her service is the happiness of her Master. That is the single response that she is seeking. The inner desire within her is to fulfill the wishes of her Master.

The M/s relationship is much easier when a slave realizes her true role. Thinking in terms of service to her Master eliminates many of the conflicts that can arise. Ask yourself, “is this going to make my Master happy”. Strive to develop the service mindset each day. That is the role that a slave best fulfills. When one seeks other things from her Master, she sets herself up for disappointment. In these instances, she may or may not receive what she seeks. However, one who is always looking to fulfill her Master’s desires will find the payoff that she is looking for.

Often, W/we make the M/s relationship more difficult than it needs to be. Naturally there are the same difficulties that are present with any relationship. However, many seem to want to complicate matters. Remember what it is that you are to fulfill and go about doing it. The pleasure you receive will come if you are continually in the frame of mind to serve. That is your true calling.

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