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The scene is at the center of many BDSM relationships. This is true when the interraction between the two parties is limited to the sexual arena. The M/s relationshp or the involved BDSM relationship take on a different level of meaning. Safety is the most critical component of the scene. Before entering into it, one should be certain that there is a safe work in place. To overlook this vital step can cause great harm.

Regardless of how it is looked at, sex is a critical component of the BDSM world. The type of sex O/one likes is varied. Some are into the leather scene with whips and floggers being standard. Dungeon scenes are popular with many. Many subs loved to be tied up; it only enhances the feeling of submissiveness. To be totally vulnerable is what they seek.

Experienced Doms or Masters know where the limits are. If one is new to the lifestyle, it is best to be worked on by Someone who is knowledgable about pain. I have found that some enjoy the sensations of being beaten while others can handle very little. It is an individual thing that needs to be dealt with accordingly. For One to treat all the same also can have negative impacts.

Does this mean that all involved in this lifestyle are horny individuals with no self control? Of course not. However, the typical person in this way of life does enjoy sex a great deal. W/we tend to have high sex drives which the traditional relationship failed to deliver. Many of U/us love group sex because the variety adds additional stimulation. Alternative aspects of the sexually lifestyle including leather, bisexuality, bondage, etc… all factor into the pleasure people receive. Finally, many enjoy the poly characteristic of their relationships by having more than one sub/slave.

Therefore, as you can see, W/we are a varied people sexually. The BDSM world have many different looks to it. It is something that many practice even if then do not recognize it as such. For example, spanking during sex, done by the majority, is a form of light BDSM. Add a spatula or a paddle to the mix and O/on just entered a little deeper. But again, regardless of what aspect is appealing to Y/you. remember safety is at the top of the list.

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