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There are many payoffs to being sexually dominant. The world is crying for people to step up and take control. The list of submissives needing someone to use them is endless. Why do people shun from something that is so wonderful? Get involved in this lifestyle and watch all that changes.

Perhaps spelling out the benfits of sexual dominance will help this:

1. You will get laid more often:

People in this lifestyle tend to have a very high sex drive. No longer will you have to deal with the “not tonight honey, I am tired. You will have the control, something the other is more than happy to give you. A submissive wants to be used in every way possible. You will be like a kid in a candy shop. And you will be the envy of all your friends. All sex all the time.

2. You will get laid by more people:

Estimates are that the number of submissives versus doms is somewhere around 20 to 1. Do you understand what these statistics mean? There are people dying for you to take them. Why mess with all the other guys in the “vanilla” world.

3. Plain sex is boring:

Sex is suppose to be exciting, invigorating, and orgasmic. Are you tired of the missionary position every other Thursday? This lifestyle allows for the full exploration of human sexuality. You can find someone to do whatever you want. There are lovers of every type of fetish. Pull out the rope, floggers, and whips to increase pleasure for both of you.

4. Your relationship will reach a very deep emotional level:

Submissive people yearn to serve. They want to be used for the pleasure of another. Being treated sexually like an object is stimulating to these people. At the same time, the desire to serve comes from deep within oneself. When you fulfill that deep yearning, you find that the connection that the two of you have is beyond words. It is extremely deep-deeper then most anything you experienced.

Society teaches that we should not be dominant. It trains people to go against their true nature. When the dominant traits are removed, the ones who also suffer are the submissive types. Their desires can only be met by interacting with a dominant person. It is time for all to step up and take control.

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So you are intertested in BDSM. How do you go about it? What is the best way to approach this way of life? Well, obviously, if your read some of my other posts, you now know there are many facets to BDSM. It is a broad spectrum wich almost anyone can fit into.

It seems the most common way people enter into it is sexually. This is the easiest way for a couple to begin their journey. In fact, I would say most couples restrict their BDSM/control activities to the bedroom. Few actually move into other phases of life.

As with anything, it is best to read up on different techniques and methods for implementing this into your sex life. Start with those areas which interest both your partner and yourself. Try to start on the “light” side of things. Discuss what it is each of you likes/dislikes. It is best to determine the level of submission and domination that each person has. Are the two of you equally split or perhaps one of you is a switch. Either way, it is helpful to know what the other desires.

Begin with some light activites such as spanking and/or light bondage. This is a wonderful way to experiment with BDSM. See how the other likes what is occurring. If there are no objections, move to something a little harder, such as spanking using an implement or tieing that person compelely to the bed. Experiment with your words play to see how degradation, humiliation, and belittling feel. Some will really enjoy this aspect of the interaction, others will not. This is a time where each is learning some of the limits.

Over time, you will find that you can expand your scope. There are many fetishes which really excite some members of our community. They are open for exploration if so desired. Other alternative lifestyles such as swinging and group activites also can be added they are of interest. Determine what sexual activites you like and discuss these with your partner. This is a simple way to expand your sexual horizons.

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There are some who prefer to get completely away from mainstream sex. These are the O/ones who move straight to hardcore. There is very little that is off limits to T/them. Are you one of these people?

Fetishes are a wonderful aspect of this lifestyle. There are so many things that a sub will do which typical girls will scoff at. It is truly an amazing feeling of power to use a woman in ways that are totally out of the ordinary. It is only enahanced when she is loving it. The ones who tend to be involved in this lifestyle seem to be willing to engage in extreme sex to some degree.

Pain sluts seem to be the typical one who lives this way. She loves to be beaten. Making sex hurt gets her going. For anyone who has encountered this type, there is nothing that compares to it. It is an amazing power rush to see the welts on one’s ass or back from a strap, riding crop, or flogger. For me, I find this highly erotic. What is sensational is that the orgasms these type of women have when treated in this manner is amazing. I have seen women squirt under these circumstances because they are turned on so much.

Another extreme aspect is watersports. There are many subs who love to be peed on. The warm feeling of a man’s piss (females is the sub is male) is exciting to them. Personally, this doesnt do much for Me as a Master but I do enjoy the power trip that comes with it. The feeling of dominance is heightened in that situation because it is so non-mainstream.

So what is Y/your ultimate fantasy? Check out the BDSM world to see how to make it come true. Life is short. There is no reason to suppress Y/your sexual desires. It is all available if Y/you will take the action. Those who live this lifestyle are willing to be involved in so many different things. Living a life with few limits sexually is a degree of freedom that few enjoy.

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