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Archive for July 19th, 2008

To add a bit of levity to our Saturday, please tell us what is your favorite sexual position. Please choose from the list below. Post your comments with your answers.

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We mentioned a few days ago the Top 10 Female Fantasies. To give equal time, we will list the Top 10 Lesbian Fantasies. This is an interesting difference from what heterosexual women dream about. You will notice there are some similarities.

1. One-Night Stands

You meet an attractive stranger in a dark bar and take her back to your place for some randy action. Or maybe you spy a cutie on the bus, you get off at her stop and you follow her down a secluded alley where you get busy without even asking her name.

2. Romantic

Is your fantasy for your lover to treat you like a queen? Does she rent a limo, take you to an expensive hotel where chocolates and rose petals are strewn about the room. Or perhaps you’re in an exotic location swimming in the warm ocean and eating fruit off each other’s bodies while the native birds serenade you with their beautiful song.

3. Delivery Woman/Mail Woman

Who hasn’t noticed how cute delivery drivers are in their uniforms? Could she have something extra special in that package for you?

4. Group Sex/Orgy

Do you dream of a threesome? Having sex with a man and a woman at the same time? Attending a lesbian sex party? Many women (and men) share this sexual fantasy. This is similar to all others.

5. Celebrity Sex

George Clooney won’t make this list too often. But the idea of being with a sexy supermodel or actress is too tempting. Anyone up for Jennifer Aniston.

6. Exhibitionism

Want to put on a show for someone? Do you have a secret fantasy of becoming a pole dancer or strip artist? Go ahead! Do it for your lover. Or perhaps you dream of having sex where others are watching. Pretend you’re making love on a beach and a crowd gathers to watch.

7. Dominance

Do you ever dream of having a lover on her knees ready to meet your every sexual need? She will do anything you ask of her. Perhaps she is begging you to take her. Maybe you fantasize about spanking your partner or tying her to the bed posts.

8. Submission

Women who fantasize about submission want someone else to take complete control. They fantasize about a lover who will put them in their place, run the show and maybe even use a little discipline.

9. Forbidden Sex

Is there someone you want who you just can’t have? Your boss? Your sister-in-law? It may be wrong to sleep with her, but fantasizing can do no harm.

10. Gender Play

The fantasy of her partner having a nice dick gets her hot. She wants to be taken like a man can-without having the man,

You will also enjoy 10 Mistakes Men Make In Bed, 10 Tips For Attending A Sex Party, Top 10 Female Fantasies, and Top 10 Lesbian Fantasies.

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This is the aspect of the BDSM world that most cannot understand. They ask “why would anyone want to be beaten”. It is a dumbfounding idea until you look at what is really transpiring in the brain.

Most can identify with the concept of the “runner’s high”. This is something those who run regularly can achieve. Basically, their body hurts until they get their second wind. What actually occurs is the brain releases endorphins which stimulate activity within the body. At this point, the runner begins to feel like he or she just started running. Of course, not being a runner myself this is what I am told.

The pain that a sub/slave experiences is similar. While the actualy whipping might cause a sensation we refer to as “painful”, the mind overrides this feeling. Like with the runner, the brain will release endorphins which counteract the pain. Many have termed this entering into “subspace”. A trancelike state can be achieved once these are released.

Another interesting conclusion is that the part of the brain which registers pain overlaps with the part that experiences sexual pleasure. This is why many get the pain/pleasure sensation. They feel the pain of the item being used on them while being sexually turned on. It is a good idea to engage in sex while doing this if possible. It will increase her pleasure.

Many have feared this lifestyle because of the pain element. Like always, this is not something for everyone. I would estimate only about 10% of the subs/slaves are “pain sluts”. Yet many find they enjoy a degree of S&M. This might be limited to a light spanking; or perhaps a paddling. Either way, there is pleasure to be derived from implementing this into your sexual activities.

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