Do you know what it feels like to have one completely submit to you? This is a feeling that is beyond explanation. As a Dom, there is a streak within Me that can only be satisfied by the total exchange of power by another. When she gives herself fully to Me, that is when the itch is scratched.
Many on the outside cannot understand what transpires within One who is in this lifestyle. We are looked at as weird or perverts. This is far from the truth. The desire to control another is imbedded within Us. It is the same as the desire to serve within a sub. This is simply a way that W/we are programmed. For Me, the only way to satisfy that is to find one who will submit.
Rough sex is an act that many from all walks of life engage in. There are many who will sexually dominate their partners during sex. “Dirty” talk is quite common. Words such as “slut”, “whore”, and “cunt” are used to enhance the experience. Also, there are many swingers who engage in the active sexual lifestyle. They choose a model that is different from the monogamous norm. Yet they return to their daily lives after the playing is done. Well, so do W/we in many regards.
The power to be in control is a phenominal sensation. However, it comes with responsibility. When one submits fully to you, she ceded all power over her life. It is now Yours. To derive the full benefit out of that power, One must use it wisely while respecting the responsibility that goes along with it. The payoff is grand.
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Hi,
Just wanted to thank you for your great blogs- I just received one in my e mail and your statement being true to oneself is the best and the only way to be, like Socrates said, “The unexamined life is not worth living” thank u again for all your inspiration. I will continue reading.
Love has no mind, it can’t spell unkind,
Suzanne