Archive for November, 2008


One way to experiment in the BDSM life is by bondage, and this is something many like to either do or have done to them, it is a feeling of power and control in the Dom/Masters case and a feeling of complete submission in the sub/slaves case. There are many ways to tie someone, and many things that can be used, I suggest starting of simple with just normal rope before moving onto the more extreme harnesses that are readily available but costly. Pay particular atttention to the tits and the pussy as well for maximum pleasure and I am sure you wil be making this a part of your normal sexual life


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Motto For Life


Being naked is always sound advice.

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BDSM isnt for everyone

L: Hi. I was trying to do the candle wax dripping thing, and it's not
B: Have you lit the candle?
L: I need to light it?
B: Yes, if you want it to drip wax.
L: How do I light it?
B: With matches.
L: Ok, thanks!

L: Hi, it's me again. I've got the candle lit, but whenever I try and
press the wax onto her, she screams in pain. At least I think it's
pain, I can't tell with the gag I put on her.

B: Ah, I think I see the problem. You need to drip the wax onto her,
by holding the lit candle well above her flesh. Don't push the flame
into her body, that doesn't work.
L: Gee thanks! How do you know all this stuff, did you go to college?
B: Uh, no, I just picked it up by playing around at home.
L: You must be really smart!

L: Hi, the candle's still not working. She's not screaming in pain any
more, but the wax isn't melting on her, it's just bouncing off.
B: Do you have the candle lit?
L: Yup, it's lit, and the wax dribbles off, but then when it hits her
it just bounces off.
B: Uh, how high are you holding the candle.
L: I'm standing on a chair, holding it way up while she's on the
floor. That way it won't burn her.
B: Um, that might be a bit too high. Try holding the candle about a
foot above her. Then the wax will still be liquid when it hits her. If
it's too hot, raise the candle higher. If it's not hot enough, lower
the candle.
L: Well why didn't you tell me the first time.
B: I assumed you were a little more familiar with candles, sir. My
apologies for the mistake.
L: Don't talk down to me, I'm an MCSE! [0]
B: Yes, sir. Just try that and let us know how it goes.

L: Guess who? Yup, me again. It worked really great, I dripped the wax
everywhere and she really enjoyed it, and thrashed around a lot in
B: Great! How can I help you then?
L: Well, after a while she passed out from the pleasure, and she
hasn't said anything yet.
B: Did you remove the gag?
L: No, do I need to?
B: Yes, sir.
L: Ok, I'll just do it now, but she's in another room.
B: You do that then call us back if there are any problems.
L: Ok.

L: It's me again. I had to scrape a lot of the wax off, but I was able
to remove the gag now. She's still not saying anything.
B: Ok, have you tried pouring cold water on her?
L: No, I'll do that now. How high should it be when I pour it.
B: Uh, it doesn't matter how high, just pour it.
L: Ok, hang on. I'll go do that now. *pause* Nope, it didn't help.
B: Um, is she still breathing?
L: How do I check?
B: Is her stomach rising and falling?
L: Let me just check. *pause* No it's not.
B: I see. Uh, how much wax did you dribble on her face?
L: Oh heaps! At least 3 candles worth. You could hardly make anything
out it was on so thick. She really enjoyed it though, she was
thrashing around so much when I did it. It's funny, but even though
I've removed all the wax, her face is still kind of blue.
B: Uh, yeah, that will pass. Um, she seems to have moved into another
stage of existance, and it's not something we support. You'll need
to call Life Support on 911.
L: What? Hey, it was your candles and BSDM[1] book! You have to
support it.
B: I'm afraid not sir, we do explicitly state that you are responsible
for the use of such equipment, and whilst we can provide tips and
advice, you are responsible for anything occuring from the use of the
L: I want my money back then!
B: I'm sorry, but as you've used up the candles and used the book, we
can't do that.
L: You can't do that. I'm gonna call the police!
B: Ok, Sir. You do that, and tell them everything which happened. Tell
them that we have a recorded tape of all our conversations which they
can listen to if they need to confirm anything. Then if they agree you
deserve a refund we'll do that.
L: Fine. *slams down phone*

[0] Melted Candle Splurting Expert.
[1] Typo deliberate.

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This is a site that holds great interest for me.  I came across it a couple of weeks back when a friend referred me to it.  It takes the concept that Digg used for terrific success and applied it to sex/porn.  Recently, they surpassed over 2,000 submission in only 3 weeks.  I can see why they are the fastest growing site in this field.

On it, you can submit your own links to whatever sex or porn sites you like.  Also, the voting system (called kinks) allows the members to rate other people’s submissions.  Finally, you can comment on anything that holds interest to you.  It truly is an interactive social site.

I would suggest this to any blogger of adult material.  Post your stuff here to increase your traffic and gain more exposure.  And, anyone who likes kink, this seems to be the place to find it.

Go to http://www.kinkilink.com to enjoy this site.

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Do Not Multi-task


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Many things can be used when you start to ‘dable’ in BDSM and all it can bring you, some are cheap and easy to obtain, others are more specialized and costly, its your choice how far you take things but I suggest you experiment first before you spend  your years wages on some of the equipment that is out there.

Some of the things used that do not break the bank are, rope, dildos, blindfolds, gags, paddles and crops moving on to ass hooks and more specialized dildos and machines



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