Archive for January 3rd, 2009

BDSM and Spankings seem to go together in most peoples experience, the art of using a paddle or a crop, a whip or a flogger is something many like and many more think that they can do – WRONG ! When you first use a ‘tool’ on your sub or slave to spank them for pleasure, it is not about how much force you put behind the strike, or how hard you can hit her, it is about giving her ( and you ) as much pleasure as is possible ( for more advice see here, also look through the rest of the post as more tips and hints are given ) The best thing when starting to experiment with spanking within a scene or play time is to communicate at all times, watch your sub/slaves face, note her rations and her body language, but most of all ensure it is a fun and pleasurable experience for you both



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