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We mentioned a few days ago the Top 10 Female Fantasies. To give equal time, we will list the Top 10 Lesbian Fantasies. This is an interesting difference from what heterosexual women dream about. You will notice there are some similarities.

1. One-Night Stands

You meet an attractive stranger in a dark bar and take her back to your place for some randy action. Or maybe you spy a cutie on the bus, you get off at her stop and you follow her down a secluded alley where you get busy without even asking her name.

2. Romantic

Is your fantasy for your lover to treat you like a queen? Does she rent a limo, take you to an expensive hotel where chocolates and rose petals are strewn about the room. Or perhaps you’re in an exotic location swimming in the warm ocean and eating fruit off each other’s bodies while the native birds serenade you with their beautiful song.

3. Delivery Woman/Mail Woman

Who hasn’t noticed how cute delivery drivers are in their uniforms? Could she have something extra special in that package for you?

4. Group Sex/Orgy

Do you dream of a threesome? Having sex with a man and a woman at the same time? Attending a lesbian sex party? Many women (and men) share this sexual fantasy. This is similar to all others.

5. Celebrity Sex

George Clooney won’t make this list too often. But the idea of being with a sexy supermodel or actress is too tempting. Anyone up for Jennifer Aniston.

6. Exhibitionism

Want to put on a show for someone? Do you have a secret fantasy of becoming a pole dancer or strip artist? Go ahead! Do it for your lover. Or perhaps you dream of having sex where others are watching. Pretend you’re making love on a beach and a crowd gathers to watch.

7. Dominance

Do you ever dream of having a lover on her knees ready to meet your every sexual need? She will do anything you ask of her. Perhaps she is begging you to take her. Maybe you fantasize about spanking your partner or tying her to the bed posts.

8. Submission

Women who fantasize about submission want someone else to take complete control. They fantasize about a lover who will put them in their place, run the show and maybe even use a little discipline.

9. Forbidden Sex

Is there someone you want who you just can’t have? Your boss? Your sister-in-law? It may be wrong to sleep with her, but fantasizing can do no harm.

10. Gender Play

The fantasy of her partner having a nice dick gets her hot. She wants to be taken like a man can-without having the man,

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A M/s relationship can be a wonderful way of life for many. However, it is not something that will solve all of O/one’s problem. In fact, the M/s relationship will only magnify other issues which are present in a relationship. People who enter this way of life seeking to solve their problems are greatly disappointed.

What makes this lifestyle different from others is the power distribution. Since there is a total power exchange, roles become clearly defined. There is a Master and a slave. Each knows exactly what their responsibilities are. There is no confusion as to which partner is leading or following. The same typically cannot be said in the traditional arena. The lines of “authority” tend to get blurred. They are clear in the M/s relationship.

Individual shortcomings are magnified. Leadership was discussed in the last post. One cannot shirk his responsibility in this area. If He is not capable of leading the relationship, that will become evident. The same is also true for a bad relationship. This will not be made better by transforming into the M/s lifestyle. A good relationship will be enhanced in the same way. All the good qualities of each individual is further magnified. Unfortunately, so are the bad ones.

This is something to really keep in mind when getting involved with another. Someone who is a liar, a cheat, or basically not a good person will make a lousy Master. Submitting to this type of individual is a bad decision. Likewise, having a slave who is less than admirable in terms of her qualities will equally have devastating effects. Character is important in any type of relationship. The M/s situation only magnifies it.

So use your head when entering this way of life. Do not be misled into thinking that it will solve all Y/your problems. In fact, the reverse can be true. It can enhance the problematic areas rather quickly. Many have learned this lesson the hard way.

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