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This is one aspect of BDSM that I enjoy, I am a poly Master and I own a couple of slaves, each of them have a different role to play in my life, and I treat them differently, remember my previous post about one size not fitting all, well this is an example of this thinking. Now my slaves in theory ‘share’ me, that is something they have no say in, it is my decision who I talk to, who I interact with, who indeed I sleep with, that is my choice and they respect that, it is also my desicion who they engage in sex with, whether it is male or female.

I hear many new ones saying,” Oh no i couldn’t do that ” what they fail to realise is it is not their choice, and whilst I will listen to their views and worries, ultimatly it is my decision and unless there is something that will truely harm them then I will do as I wish with them, forgive me if I sound arrogant, but the Dom or Master is the dominating force in this relationship and as such should not be dictated to by those he owns.

Most subs and slaves fear this act of sharing as they are not used to it, it is a fear and not a hardcore limit, and as a Master it is my job to push their limits,break their fears, and this is one way that I can do this, however I will say that I am always present when my slaves are being used by others, whether I am engaged in the sex or not, this way I can watch them closely, no one will know your property as you do and this is a safety measure for all involved,

BDSM is fun, the freedom of the sexual experiences is second to none, enjoy all it can bring you

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There are many who consider the BDSM lifestyle to be sexually deviant. This is done by those who consider themselves to be sexually “normal”. Of course, the age-old saying “what is normal” comes to mind. The bottom line is what is normal for one is not normal for another. Those who engage in this lifestyle do so because it fits what they like. Anything that occurs between consenting adults is no one else’s business.

Perhaps Y/you are locked into the midset of what is normal sexually. For many, at first, the BDSM way of life seems a bit extreme. Yet, when O/one realizes that there are many different facets to this way of life, it seems that a lot of it is not so far out of wack. Take spanking for example. This is a deviant sexual activity to a few. These are the minority who believe that sex should be a certain way. However, research shows that more than 80% engage in some type of spanking during sex. Thus, not spanking is actually the deviant behavior.

There are those who like to term us perverts. Again, this is from someone who is interested in controlling through their judgements. The fact that I am a multiple slave owner does not make me a pervert; it makes Me One who is following my natural inclination. This is also true for the one who craves being tied up and used by her Dom/Master. It is a natural expression of her submissiveness which comes deep from within. There is nothing perverted about this.

Here is a clue: sex is designed to be fun and enjoyable. How O/one gets to that point is up to them. For some, the extreme side of the BDSM lifestyle is what T/they like. At the same time, many like to drift towards the lighter side. Neither of these groups is deviant sexually. They are people who enjoy the different aspects of this life.

So what is it that Y/you are looking for? Are you someone who craves more sexually. Perhaps it is time to look at what this lifestyle offers. Not everyone who is invovled with it is “leather”. Nor do all participate in orgies, groups, or dungeon scenes. If that is what you want, it is here for Y/you. However, if milder suits the desires within Y/you, that is available also. Either way, put those old prejudices to rest so that sexual life can be enjoyed

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The scene is at the center of many BDSM relationships. This is true when the interraction between the two parties is limited to the sexual arena. The M/s relationshp or the involved BDSM relationship take on a different level of meaning. Safety is the most critical component of the scene. Before entering into it, one should be certain that there is a safe work in place. To overlook this vital step can cause great harm.

Regardless of how it is looked at, sex is a critical component of the BDSM world. The type of sex O/one likes is varied. Some are into the leather scene with whips and floggers being standard. Dungeon scenes are popular with many. Many subs loved to be tied up; it only enhances the feeling of submissiveness. To be totally vulnerable is what they seek.

Experienced Doms or Masters know where the limits are. If one is new to the lifestyle, it is best to be worked on by Someone who is knowledgable about pain. I have found that some enjoy the sensations of being beaten while others can handle very little. It is an individual thing that needs to be dealt with accordingly. For One to treat all the same also can have negative impacts.

Does this mean that all involved in this lifestyle are horny individuals with no self control? Of course not. However, the typical person in this way of life does enjoy sex a great deal. W/we tend to have high sex drives which the traditional relationship failed to deliver. Many of U/us love group sex because the variety adds additional stimulation. Alternative aspects of the sexually lifestyle including leather, bisexuality, bondage, etc… all factor into the pleasure people receive. Finally, many enjoy the poly characteristic of their relationships by having more than one sub/slave.

Therefore, as you can see, W/we are a varied people sexually. The BDSM world have many different looks to it. It is something that many practice even if then do not recognize it as such. For example, spanking during sex, done by the majority, is a form of light BDSM. Add a spatula or a paddle to the mix and O/on just entered a little deeper. But again, regardless of what aspect is appealing to Y/you. remember safety is at the top of the list.

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