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These Are Not Meant To Scare Anyone!

These are extreme pics which shows one aspect of the BDSM lifestyle. This is what people usually associate with when they think of this way of life. Sadly, most never get past these images to learn what this is all about. While there are some who find bondage such as this pleasurable; many do not. The bottom line is there is room for both. The BDSM world is a one that can encompass many people. We look forward to helping you with your search.

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This is a common fantasy among many women, esepcially those in BDSM.  The idea of being taken and forced into sex is thrilling to many.  Please bear in mind this is a fantasy we are talking about.  People who have this do not necessarily want to experience it for real.  This is something that their mind engages in.

What is so sensational about this particular fantasy?  Part of it is the stimulation of the submissive side.  To be completely controlled is the desire of many.  Also, the fact that it often involves sex with a stranger is alluring.  Many crave having sex with someone they do not know.  Some choose to have more than one person involved, thus presenting the “gangbang” scenario.  Finally, many envisioned be tied up during the activities.  Being captive is a thrill that also excites the submissiveness of one.

Like all aspects of BDSM, we promote the consensual interaction between people.  However, the fantaises or role playing that individuals engage in is part of the excitement of this lifestyle.  The rape fantasy is just another outlet which people satisfy their deep cravings.  BDSM offers the freedom to engage in whatever desires one has.

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I recently came across a thread on this forum that talked about captivity as a fantasy. It was incredible the number of women there who found this to be appealing. Therefore, for the benefit of all the readers here I will outline it. Perhaps this is something to bring up with your partner to see her interest. Keep in mind it is best if she is submissive (or he if applicable).

This fantasy is derived from the old kidnapping scenes in old movies. The basic idea is that one is held against her will in a “basement” type (or dungeon) environment. She is completely at the mercy of her captive. They use her in every way while giving her only the basic necessities of life. She has a toilet, something to sleep on, and is given basic food. The concept is that the conditions are far from regal.

This fantasy strikes at a submissives essense. There is complete powerness is a situation such as this. Obviously, for this to occur in reality is a traumatic experience. Yet as a fantasy and scene it can be wonderul. Come up with ways to recreate this in your relationship. Could you take her captive for a weekend? Perhaps set up a room with everything out of it. Make her sleep on the floor will you occassionally use her. Make it as realistic as possible.

As always, discuss the parameters going in. What are the bounds of activity which cannot be crossed? Will others be involved? What is the safe word to call the entire thing off? What steps can she take in case of an emergency? We always promote safety first here. However, after that, enjoy yourself.

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Here are the top 10 fantasies that women have:

10. Sex With A Stranger: Women dream about the no strings attached sex with someone they meet on the street.

9. Working As A Prostitute Or Stripper: Show me the money. The fantasy of being picked up and used while receiving a c-note excites many women. Turning a man on by doing an exotic striptease is also high on the list.

8. Being Dominated By A Man: The female instinct to be dominated at the most animalistic level runs in high gear in her fantasy. She wants a man to take control her and use her.

7. Being Filmed: The desire to be admired while performing is exciting to many.

6. Fantasies Involving Romantic Sex: The moonlit beach with a handsome man; sex in front of the fire at a ski lodge-private cabana of course.

5. Group Sex: many different variations are thought about. Commonly women fantasize about mmf or mff. A few take it to the gangbang level.

4. Something You’ve Never Tried Before: a lot of women are in stall relationships and havent tried anything wild. This is something they dream about.

3. Sex with Another Woman: Most women wonder what it is like to be with another woman. This plays out deeper in their fantasies.

2. Sex with a Man Other Than Your Partner: She thinks about your buddies and her co-workers too. Famous people are also a common fantasy. Ever hear of George Clooney?

1. Fantasizing About Your Current Partner: The female species is a loyal bunch when with someone they care for. She will be thinking of you when you arent there.

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The dundgeon scene is one of the mainstays in the BDSM world. It is a sexual fantasy of many to be taken in an environment such as this. There are many products on the market which contour to this particular fetish. Many have set up dundgeon scenes in their homes to further the sexual excitement with their subs/slaves.

Who would not be turned on by the sheer animal magnetism of this concept? It is something that we see in movies. The barbarians enter a town and imprison all the townfolk. Their behavior is abysmal with the taking of all they want. Women are raped at will by these horrific beings. W/we have seen it many times in different films over the years.

The fantasy of powerless is really in play her. For a sub to have her body available to be taken in any manner promotes great excitement within her. This is an extension of the normal bondage activities W/we regularly see. Being tied to a bedpost has a certain flair to it. Yet it does not compare to being tied to a piece of aparatus in a cold, dreary room. This is where one is taken back to the ancient times. Comfort is not something that is high on the priority list.

This is a fantasy that is a bit extreme for many. However, it is fairly common among people in this lifestyle. It illustrates how O/one is only limited by the imagination. The BDSM way of life allows for great sexual pleasure in many different ways. It is why so many of us love it.

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There are many payoffs to being sexually dominant. The world is crying for people to step up and take control. The list of submissives needing someone to use them is endless. Why do people shun from something that is so wonderful? Get involved in this lifestyle and watch all that changes.

Perhaps spelling out the benfits of sexual dominance will help this:

1. You will get laid more often:

People in this lifestyle tend to have a very high sex drive. No longer will you have to deal with the “not tonight honey, I am tired. You will have the control, something the other is more than happy to give you. A submissive wants to be used in every way possible. You will be like a kid in a candy shop. And you will be the envy of all your friends. All sex all the time.

2. You will get laid by more people:

Estimates are that the number of submissives versus doms is somewhere around 20 to 1. Do you understand what these statistics mean? There are people dying for you to take them. Why mess with all the other guys in the “vanilla” world.

3. Plain sex is boring:

Sex is suppose to be exciting, invigorating, and orgasmic. Are you tired of the missionary position every other Thursday? This lifestyle allows for the full exploration of human sexuality. You can find someone to do whatever you want. There are lovers of every type of fetish. Pull out the rope, floggers, and whips to increase pleasure for both of you.

4. Your relationship will reach a very deep emotional level:

Submissive people yearn to serve. They want to be used for the pleasure of another. Being treated sexually like an object is stimulating to these people. At the same time, the desire to serve comes from deep within oneself. When you fulfill that deep yearning, you find that the connection that the two of you have is beyond words. It is extremely deep-deeper then most anything you experienced.

Society teaches that we should not be dominant. It trains people to go against their true nature. When the dominant traits are removed, the ones who also suffer are the submissive types. Their desires can only be met by interacting with a dominant person. It is time for all to step up and take control.

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Doms and subs are following their inner desires. That is what makes the lifestyle so exciting for each of these individuals. The D/s or M/s relationship is predicated upon each person having these desires fulfilled. A sub seeks to provide her Dom with pleasure. At the same time, a Dom desires to control.

The area of sex is the ideal place to see each of these fulfilled. When a couple enters into the realm of bondage, this is where each is satisified at the most primal level. The act of tieing a sub up creates a streak of power within a Dom. This single act puts in the physical form his total control. He instantly knows that He is in control. A sub also knows that her power is completely removed. She has given it all to Him.

Of course, in the D/s or in a M/s scene, the bondage arena usually facilitates the use of safe words. The sub can call the entire scene off if she is uncomfortable. A slave in a relationship typically does not enjoy this same luxury. Her Master is the One who determines how far He is willing to take her based upon His understanding of her limits. In either case, the sub is to be used for her Master’s sexual pleasure. This is the basis of bondage.

How many of you have imaged what it would be like to be tied up and defenseless against another? In talking with many subs/slaves, I find this is one of the most exciting aspects of the sexual relations. To be used sexually hits us at such a primal level. There is little which compares to it.

As always, safety is highest on the list. Yet, once that precaution is honored, there really are few limits that O/one encounters. Biding one in positions which allows her to be used thoroughly is what both parties seek. This is a payoff for entering the BDSM arena. It is a way of life in which sexual experimentation is encouraged. Deviance from the average is the norm for us. The satisfaction is intense.

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