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Looking back at previous post, I have touched on the subject of bound tits, femdom and the CBT that can go with that, so today I thought I would take a brief look at pussy play.

As you know one of the most erotic and sensitive parts of a woman’s body is her pussy, and there are many ways to heighten the sensations and feelings to this part of her, and if you are the owner of a pain slut then the various ways can involve more extreme measures but that is something for the Master and slave to experiment with until they reach a comfortable limit which pleases them both.

For those new to pussy play I like to start off with clothes pegs, these are cheap and easily available and they have a ‘bite’ but are not as intense as the metal clamps available. Once the sub/slave is used to these then you can move on to other things, wax for example is another good one, see my tips and guide here for more on this subject.

The only limit to the BDSM life is your limits, and each is different, as with all things, safety is important and knowing your sub or slave is a must, let them guide you as to what they like, this is not a sign of weakness but a sign of a good Dom/Master

Have fun and enjoy all that this life can offer you

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For some reason I am recieving lots of mails and comments on the subject of bound tits, it seem that this is something that many of you enjoy and I can understand why, as when it is done right it is a fun and sensual activity when used as part of a scene or play time, as I always say safety is important and as such care needs to be taken not to cut off the blood supply to the breasts or nipples for prolonged lengths of time, alos the material used to bind the tits needs to be easily removable in case of an emergency * not that there will be if you are careful in what you are doing* Take bound tits, add a slap of a crop or paddle, tease with a whip or flogger and watch the look on your sub/slaves face, if they are what I call a pain slut they will soon be writhing ,,,,, but in pleasure and not agony, add a nipple clip or clams and have fun !

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A quick, quirky and slightly fun post for you to ponder over, CAGES.
when people think of cages, they have a tendency to think punishments, locking someone up, imprisoning them, but sometimes that could not be further from the truth, in BDSM play a cage can be a wonderful accessory, it has many uses and can add to role play, it can be used to help a sub/slave move deeper into her submission and it can also be used as a punishment place * although if it is used for this I would recommend two cages, one for play and one for punishment, and the two need to be obviously different, so that the association with one is not carried over into the other one during a scene*
Cage play is something some like and some don’t, as I have said numerous times, that is what makes BDSM so great, the ability to adapt it to suit your preferences. As with all things take care when playing with cages, some subs/slaves can panic if locked in a small place so always be aware of what is happening around you and this applies to whether a cage is used for fun or punishment

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Having touched briefly on wax play, I have decided to revisit this particular activity in the hope to clear up some misconceptions that judging by the emails I have received some people seem to have.
Wax play is NOT about hurting your sub or slave and it is NOT about covering her or his entire body in wax, and it most defiantly is NOT about trying to burn them, it is about erotic foreplay, it is another dimension added to enhance the submission and trust between the Master or Dom and those He/She owns.
When done right, the dripping of wax on a persons body should not actually ‘burn’ them, it will heighten the sense of her body, it will bring attention to that particular area of her body, her skin will feel warm/hot and her mind will focus on the pleasure she is feeling, cooling that area with an ice cube either before or after then the feelings will intensify.
There are many articles describing wax play and its benefits and also the things to watch out for, if you are new to this type of play then I suggest starting on the hand or feet, these areas tend to be ‘tougher’ and therefore less likely to be burnt but at the same time they will allow practice so that you both are comfortable to move forward to another part of the body. The face is an area to avoid until you are both well practiced.
As with all things associated with BDSM and its different forms of play, take care to watch your sub/slave so you know instantly if she is experiencing any discomfort and react accordingly so this is a pleasurable experience for you both, and most of all have fun

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Having touched on this subject before, and recieving lots of mail regarind it I have decided to add an update to this subject for your enjoyment * and mine *

BDSM is a lifestyle that more and more are enjoying, whether they live it 24/7 or just once a month when they meet with someone to partake in a scene or even if they dabble in it within their normal everyday sexual or daily life. – to be honest there are thousands of people who add a bit of this life into thier sex lives daily and they really are unaware of it !

One of my favorite parts of BDSM is bondage, * note I said one * and this can add to other parts of this life in so many different ways, just think, a bound sub/slave is at your mercy, you control the play and how much or how little pleasure that person recieves, be it a male or female, they are at your mercy, this in itself takes an infinate amount of trust but once you have that total trust the rewards are endless for all concerned.

I personally love to bind my slaves tits, this is something that heightens their sensitivity, so the slightest flick of a crop or paddle adds that bit more bite, add some clothes pegs to her nipples or the fleshy underside of the breast and for the more experienced a ‘zipper’ effect and the initial pain felt is soon outweughed by the pleasure recieved

Remember always be aware of the person you are with, and watch for their body language, some do not take to certain things as well as others so slowly introducing different things into your playtime is often the best way, afer all this is supposed to be fun for ALL concerned

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As BDSM is becoming more and more noticed in the ‘vanilla’ world you will find more and more cartoons depicting this way of life, now I do not say they are accurate in all they show but some of them are really funny, and they are using more and more of the more well known cartoons.

I have compiled a few for your enjoyment, I hope you like then as much as I did

A Helping Hand From Jerry

A Helping Hand From Jerry


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cartoon femdom

zena is having fun

zena is having fun

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After recieving a few requests I am going to touch on the subject of FEMDOM briefly once more, for more information, I recommend reading previously posted articles and pictures which can be found on here.

Femdom is just a small part of the BDSM life, but as with all things in this life it makes an important part for those who choose to live this way, it is not something for all, but there are many men and women who love to be dominated by a female, and there are many women ( Dommes ) who have the ability to fulfill this role.

As with male Doms and Masters there is a lot of responsibility for these Mistresses, their role in this life is the same as that of the mans, there is no sexual discrimination involved, the basic ‘rules’ are the same and the subs or slaves needs as much care and nurturing as they would if they were owned by a man.

The sexual side of things are again within reason the same, there is little or no difference in how a sub or slave serves the One who owns them, and in todays world more and more men are seeking the release from high pressure jobs and demanding routines by submitting to someone they trust and respect, and for hetrosexual men that one is a Mistress or Domme.

As with all things in this life, it is not about brute strength,force or pyhsical power, even the smallest woman can be a Mistress to a 6ft man and get him to submit to her desires, it is about more than that and no one should feel belittled by submitting to a woman. If the parties involved are happy then that is all that matters in the end

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