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Punishments are a part of the Master/slave relationship. One of the important qualities that a Master seeks to instill in His slave is discipline. Part of this is punishment. However, punishments are consequences for actions taken (or not taken). They are administered in a judicious manner. Anyone who quickly goes into punishment mode is someone that one should question.

The foundation of the a slave’s servitude is obedience. She is to obey that which her Master sets out for her. He is the One who leads the relationship. Disobedience is the most valid reason for punishment. Anytime a slave willing disobeys her Master, she is choosing the path to punishment. This is how responsible Masters handle the situation.

Fakes take a different approach. To begin with, they use physical punishment as the only form of punishment. Again, those of us who are in the lifestyle know this can be an effective method. Anyone who has dealt with a slave who loves pain knows the futility in this. Therefore, we use other means to punish as opposed to beatings. Withholding serves as a better method for altering behavior.

When one finds herself repeatedly punished might want to question the validity of the person she is dealing with. There is something that Masters have learned; slaves are human. They will make mistakes. This is a fact of ownership and any Master who expects mistakes to be eliminated is not being realistic. Anyone who continually punishes for the most minor of mistakes is someone who belongs in another lifestyle.

Disobedience is grounds for punishment. An honest mistake on the part of a slave is not an indication that she is disobedient. True Masters will help a slave understand where she went wrong so that she can do better in the future. Also, He will look at the choice He made to determine if He needs to make some changes. Perhaps He assigned a task to the slave which was beyond her capability. Failure to complete it is not the slave’s fault in this situation but the Masters. Of course, repeatedly making the same mistake shows a failure to learn on the slave’s behalf which usually will entail some form of punishment.

So be leery of someone who is continually punishing. Anyone who uses this as the primary tool for modeling behavior is not real. They are just an abuser operating under the guise of a Master. This is a person one will want to avoid at all costs.

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