BDSM – The Forbidden Place

In BDSM, there is no place off limits * obviously this is something you have talked about and agreed on prior to the scene or during the process of submission* Most Doms and Masters like to show thier property off, they like to share with others, be it with others in their poly family or with other friends within the lifestyle, however, that said, most of those I know have always said that the anus is off limits to everyone but them, this is the ‘Forbidden Hole’ the one that is used by the Dom or Master only. Now why this is I really have no idea, it might be because anal sex was something frowned upon up until 10/15 years ago, it was alwas considered ‘perverted’ and not something ‘normal’ people did, how wrong they were !

Anal sex is something enjoyed by most in this life and in the vanilla as well, it is one more step to total submission by a sub or slave when they open all thier body for their Owner to take, to own and make it their own. It could be said that to take it a step further is to then go ass to mouth but that is up to the people involved as it is not something everyone can do.

Anal sex brings another aspect of pleasure into the BDSM life style, just think, how erotic is it to fuck an ass that you have made warm by spanking or paddling ? To have a sub or slave tied with her ass in the air waiting for you to decide what you are going to do, or even if you place a butt plug in while you pound her pussy, an ass hook for added fun, the posibilities are endless and the ass is no longer the forbidden hole to you.

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Good Advice!

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10 Things About Anal Sex

1: Safety Cums First
Hopefully you already trust the one your with but it’s wise to: Use a condom whenever you engage in anal sex. You should also never go from anus to mouth, or anus to vagina, without washing carefully (and changing condoms) in between.

2: Don’t skimp on the lube.
The anus has no natural lubrication, so you’ll need to use plenty of lubricant. Avoid lubricants that contain analgestitics, pain is your friend here and numbing the area can be dangerous.

3: Communication Is Key
Encourage your partner to take deep breaths and communicate his or her feelings aloud because this is a two way street.

4: Start Small
You might want to try incorporating anal toy play into your love life before jumping to anal intercourse. Of course the best sex toy of all is your fingers!

5: If It Hurts Stop
Pain is the bodies way of telling us that something is not right and it’s something we should all listen to. If you are the one receiving anal stimulation make sure you tell your partner if it hurts. Take a break and maybe try again.

6: Proceed With Caution
Once you are ready to try anal sex, slow things down and take it easy. This is not a race and the experience will be much more enjoyable if you do.

7: Setting The Pace
Always allow the partner who is receiving the anal to set the depth and pace. See 5

8: Positions, Camera, Action
According to Clitical members the favorite position for anal sex is doggie style.

9: Stimulating Times
Don’t forget to stimulate other areas of the body while participating in anal sex. A little clitoral stimulation can go a long way to making the experience more satisfying for both partners.

10: It’s okay to stop
If things don’t feel right it’s okay to stop, take a break and start again. This is supposed to be fun after all!

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